Watch out, men on poles

What’s my take on it?

Hmmm…. Seriously? That’s a toughie to answer. I would like to get all possessive about my pole and insist that this is a strictly women’ arena. This is feminine territory, back off all you testosterone inflated creatures! Unfortunately this is not true and the males will be here to stay.

More and more males are becoming interested and intrigued in the art as much as women. Some of the motivations might be similar but generally I believe male and female pole practitioners view the pole very differently. For men, fitness and the mental and physical challenge pretty much sums up their equation. For women, or at least I would like to imagine the majority of us are also attracted to the sensuality that a woman can bring to the pole on top of the fitness aspect. I for one, am very much drawn to that.

When I perform, I feel very safe with the pole, there is something assuring about gripping the steel hard pole. I feel like I have a companion and I am not afraid. And I feel very sexed up too. The moment I grasp it in my hands, the ripples of sensuality will just seep into my entire body as if a dam have broke and all hell breaks loose. I just want to close my eyes and get in touch with the siren within that threatens to consume my entire being. It is a god-damn sexy feeling!

I am not a hard core gymnastic poler because I am also a strong advocator for the sensuality that a woman can demonstrate with the pole. And that is the way I would like SensUal Joy to remain, faithful in our mantra 70% sensuality and 30% tricks and stunts.

Whatever your motivation for the pole may be, whether it is to demonstrate your impressive pole stunts or to illustrate the siren within you, use it to further your sense of self and use it to brighten the world a little with your happy, satisfied and hopefully sensualicious smile on the pole.

Happy pole-ing

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Cardiff hails Queen of Pop Madonna

I love pole dancing!

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Apparently, Madonna included pole dancing for her latest Sticky and Sweet world tour. Sadly I was unable to find any footage of it on Youtube. I wish I can see that. After all, pole dancing has become permanent residence in many parts of the world. How could the Queen of Controversy not include it in her act?

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This hugely successful artist can’t possibly be in her 50s! She is solid fit and is as dedicated to her work as ever. She is a classic example of “Embracing My Sexuality.” Yes, she might not be everyone’s shot of samuca but hey! you’ve got to admit she gets you to sit up and pay attention anyway.

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Thank you Madonna for the amazing entertainment you have given to us through the years. You are one hell of a show stopper!

As Madonna famously sang,” Express yourself, don’t repress yourself.”

Ladies, go for it!

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Dynamics of Pole Dancing

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Pole dancing has been a wonderous gift to me. A beautiful art that I have deep respect for. Although this sentiment will not be too popular with many people, it has been a most satisfying journey for me.

Loosely I would categorise the dynamics of pole dancing into three components.

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1- Pole Styling

It is a term that I coined for my students to understand the various aspect of pole dancing. It means moving around a pole, dancing with a pole without having to perform strenuous tricks or even be off ground and still be graceful and sexy around a pole.

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2- Pole Tricks (Stunts)

It is the fanciful stuff that you do to a pole. Thats where the fun begins where some dancers. And thats where the terror starts for others. Pole tricks refers to swings, slides, climbs and inverts. Some of the more advanced tricks are practically gymnastics in nature and demand very strong limbs and abdominal muscles to be executed well.

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3. Pole Safety

A often neglected component of pole dancing will be pole safety. In our anxiety to learn the advanced tricks, we tend to overlook the safety factor. However, falling off a pole especially when you are practising alone can have serious consequences.

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In view of its importance, here are some simple pointers:

• Ensure that the pole is secure and safe.
• Always keep the pole clean and dry.
• Your palms must be dry when pole dancing.
• Clean the pole often if you have sweaty palms.
• Work on building your arms muscles, legs muscles and abdominal muscles.
• Have a relationship with the pole. Learn how to grip the pole using your arms and legs.
• Get off the pole when in doubt or when you are rapidly losing strength.

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My Cleansing Process

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My Cleansing Process in Way Back Into Love (WBIL) # reminds me of the process of doing my laundry in the washing machine. Throwing the dirty clothes into the machine, allocating sufficient …

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