Watch out, men on poles
What’s my take on it?
Hmmm…. Seriously? That’s a toughie to answer. I would like to get all possessive about my pole and insist that this is a strictly women’ arena. This is feminine territory, back off all you testosterone inflated creatures! Unfortunately this is not true and the males will be here to stay.
More and more males are becoming interested and intrigued in the art as much as women. Some of the motivations might be similar but generally I believe male and female pole practitioners view the pole very differently. For men, fitness and the mental and physical challenge pretty much sums up their equation. For women, or at least I would like to imagine the majority of us are also attracted to the sensuality that a woman can bring to the pole on top of the fitness aspect. I for one, am very much drawn to that.
When I perform, I feel very safe with the pole, there is something assuring about gripping the steel hard pole. I feel like I have a companion and I am not afraid. And I feel very sexed up too. The moment I grasp it in my hands, the ripples of sensuality will just seep into my entire body as if a dam have broke and all hell breaks loose. I just want to close my eyes and get in touch with the siren within that threatens to consume my entire being. It is a god-damn sexy feeling!
I am not a hard core gymnastic poler because I am also a strong advocator for the sensuality that a woman can demonstrate with the pole. And that is the way I would like SensUal Joy to remain, faithful in our mantra 70% sensuality and 30% tricks and stunts.
Whatever your motivation for the pole may be, whether it is to demonstrate your impressive pole stunts or to illustrate the siren within you, use it to further your sense of self and use it to brighten the world a little with your happy, satisfied and hopefully sensualicious smile on the pole.
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Pole Bend

Pole Bend
“Bend it like Bubka.”
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Having a bad day?
Melt into that oh so delicious pole bend if I were you!
I just love working out on the pole. It just erodes the bad day out of my system.
All you need is to grab that pole, close your eyes and simply relish the slow descend to Mother Earth.
Feel that workout on your legs, your arms and your back and that trusting feeling as the pole guides you down to the ground.
Allowing the back to land one vertebrate at a time as you silently thank god for that beautiful pole you are clasping in your hand.
And as your legs take its time to join the rest of your body in one straight plane, exhale the last remnants of the bad day out of your system.
Get up knowing that you are getting up to a brand new rest of the day and nothing and nobody gonna get you again.
Go kick some ass woman!
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Miss Pole Dance UK, A Misunderstood Affair
If all the pole dancing you have ever been associated with are doughy images you have seen on movies and scantily clad singers in their music videos, you will probably be part of the “what the hell, we just cleaned it up!” team at King Cross. Our most profound respect if the above mentioned is true but you still find pole dancing a cool and admirable activity. Pole dancing have been penetrating country after country faster than you can say ‘Oh wow’ during the last few years.
Countless women are embracing it and even more are getting better at their pole moves/tricks with their OWN poles even as I speak. And yet, we are still confronted by individuals and groups belonging to the dinosaur age, refusing to embrace what have been a healthy does of self esteem to women all over the world, insisting that it is just sleaze, only sleaze and nothing else.

This is a terrible shame. It is just like people who insists that yoga are for weirdos and only for people who have nothing better to do than to bend themselves into odd shapes and positions. Never mind that history has proven its enormous benefits.
They shut their eyes, cover their ears, shake their heads, run away shrieking that it is bad, bad and bad.
Nothing else matters.
*plenty of eye rolling*
Oh well, suit yourself. I think it’s hard to climb or swing the pole anyway if you are a dinosaur.
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Joy Leng
A dancer named Joy

The freedom to dance
Poetic words I have received from a special friend and I would like to share it here:) -
There was a dancer named Joy
Whose form enraptured many a Boy
She slid up and down a long Pole
And lured many a man from his Goal
Her predecessor might have caused the fall of Troy
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What can I say?
The power is within you ladies.
Allow its manifestations TODAY!
Asian Pole Summit 2008
Great news for you pole dancers in Singapore and Kuala Lumpur!!!
If you have been itching to get into some hot action, be it to show off your pole moves in public or simply to get direct coaching from who’s who in the pole industry, the time has come!
Jitterbugs Singapore has organized an Asian Pole Summit which includes a a pole competition at The Arena and workshops from KT Coates.
Especially for those of you who are very involved in improving your stunts and simply loves acrobats moves, you are highly recommended to grab this once in a lifetime opportunity to benefit from one of the pioneers in pole dancing.
For more information on KT Coates, click here
Some of us get an adrenaline rush from displaying our difficult pole moves to the public. Others might feel a great sense of accomplishment from being acknowledged for the hard work and BRUISES we have endured to be able to execute those glorious stunts.
Everyone finds our sense of satisfaction in very different ways even for the same art. Hence, if what I have said strike a chord in your heart, be brave and sign up for the competition!
Go in the joy of pole dancing. Go and embrace the challenge. You can only come back a better version of yourself. For knowing yourself better through pole dancing. And allowing others to be inspired by your passion and your courage.
Kudos to Jitterbugs and Linna for making this event possible.
So, pole dancers, reach out and grab that dream.
For the competition application, click here
“I’ve learnt that pole dancing is not merely a workout but also a great tool to gain a deeper understanding of my own body. Every lesson is so fun and I’ve enjoyed it tremendously. There is always something new to learn at every turn and I really look forward to my classes each time. Of course, I also can’t complain that it’s such a fantastic way to keep fit!”
- Bei Bei
Polelicious Me Babe
(Private Pole Coaching)
November 2008
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